tired of pretending

[katekiteee23 0]

I’ve been going through this phase of just… wanting more honesty in my life. Especially in how I relate to people romantically or sexually. I’ve spent so many years hiding what I actually like. Part of me is scared, but I’m also tired of pretending.

 

[Ollien1 0]

I really admire you for saying that. I think so many of us go through that — especially when we discover we’re into things that aren’t “mainstream.” There’s so much stigma around kink or fetish, but honestly, those parts of us deserve just as much space as anything else.

[katekiteee23 0]

Exactly. I’ve known for a while that I’m into certain fetishes, and for me, they’re not just about physical stuff — they’re tied to emotional trust, creativity, and feeling truly free. But trying to bring that up on a regular app? It’s like... instant shutdown.

[Ollien1 0]

Totally. That’s why I ended up joining a dedicated fetish site instead of trying to squeeze my needs into a platform that wasn’t built for them. One I’ve found really supportive is fetish site. It’s a space for people who are into all kinds of kinks and fetishes — whether you're experienced or just curious — and everyone there just gets it. It’s actually refreshing.

[katekiteee23 0]

That sounds like such a relief. I’m ready to meet people who don’t just tolerate that part of me but actually share it. I’ll definitely check it out. Thanks for making this feel normal — because it should be.